Okay, this just came to mind.

When someone says that you’re “too [something]”, usually that’s an insult. It’s always bad to HAVE too much of something, and I think it’s the same way with BEING too much of something. I mean, thanks for making my self esteem die a little, even though it was a while back.

I think it is kind of dumb to be thinking about it so long after it happened, but really? Just because you’re not good enough or haven’t grown the balls to be act your age as a nice guy doesn’t mean it’s the the other person that has the flaws.